Tools that BondLogo Design Contest

I wrote a book about marriage. I need s an illustration for the book. It is supposed to show that all of the tools that bond lead to the ultimate goal: Love. Each of the Tools that bond are a necessary step in the ladder. I need a separate illustration for each of the rungs that show how each one stands out.

Black and White. This is for an icon for the inside of a book

To build the love and connection between husband and wife, there are many tools. I call these the Tools that Bond. I would like the illustration to show very clearly the words:

INFATUATION
ROMANCE
RESPECT
ATTRACTION
APPRECIATION
FRIENDSHIP
PHYSICAL TOUCH
INTIMACY

THE TOOLS THAT BOND LEAD TO THE GOAL OF
LOVE

Each one of the Tools that bond have their own chapter, so it might be well to create the illustration in a manner that we can highlight that Tool when we are discussing it. For instance, when we get to appreciation then that part of the illustration would be highlighted. Please see the attachments to make it clear. The icon can be steps or something like a pyramid as in the attached illustration. The idea is to show that all of these lead to the final goal Love.