Hello - First I'm sorry for your loss, Second I will thank you since I can't thank her for her service in the army.
My idea is pretty straight forward. It is an angel with the flag as its wings. I'm going to play with some different variations. Please let me know if you would like to see any changes.
Thank you for your condolences and your logo. It's not exactly what I am looking for. Not sure what I am looking for but will know it when I see it. For some reason this appears too feminine to me.