I respect your comments, but I will also share with you that my daughter is a day school graduate, has a very strong link to Israel as we have already visited there as a family, and part of her mitzvah project has been baking for, collecting and delivering food for our Mitzvah Food Pantry. She is more connected to her religion than most children her age (in fact, she will be reading 4 of the Torah readings for her service herself in addition to her Haftorah), and I am very proud of her accomplishments. There is much that will be Jewish about her party, which will be an evening party after her Sat morning Shabbat service - including the Havdallah that will be leading off her party. I'm fine with her wanting a 5 pointed star rather than a Jewish star for this festive design.