Here is my idea for your logo/website: a professional bold font, combined with a playful looking female (notice the sly grin on her face) and some bondage rope. This will definitely be more inviting and eye-catching to your target audience than the overall aesthetic of your current logo. I look forward to hearing what you think.
Colors and layout can be easily changed, so let me know if you would like to see any variations or changes made. I will be happy to make any changes you request.